Sunday, May 19, 2013

Mother's Day Recap...Late

I know Mother's Day was an entire week ago, but I have a severe case of lazy-en-gitis when it comes to blogging lately, so  I'm just getting around to sharing the photos now.

Cause seriously, these photos are too cute not to share...

We went to my sister's house for brunch.  We ate, took a walk, ate some more, watched the girls run around like hyperactive fairies, then ate some more.  More EATING!  Sounds like a Mother's Day well spent.  

My mom made us those awesome pillows.  They have photographs on one side, and words like "dream" or "love" on the other.  Love it!  


 Madeline "made" me this key chain at school.  I asked her what she had drawn me, and she said, "orange."  She's right.




I still forget that Mother's Day applies to me now.  It still seems like it should be my mother's holiday.  (Probably helps that it's also usually on her birthday.)  Does that happen to anyone else?



Tuesday, May 14, 2013

Letters to Maddie Bear May, 2013

Dear Madeline,

I'm not going to lie. You've been a bit challenging lately. I've heard that three is much worse than the "terrible twos." Perhaps now you're on the downward slide to three.

It seems like you put up a fight against everything we try to do. It's not just the yucky stuff like eating veggies or brushing your teeth either. It's everything. I just went upstairs to cuddle you a bit as you fell asleep. Nice...until you started pulling my hair and pouting when I told you to stop. We ordered you a plate of cookies and milk for desert the other night, and you fussed because I wouldn't let you use the straw to splash milk everywhere. You were happy with the hotdog we bought you at Fenway until you decided you didn't want me to hold the plate balancing on our laps. I guess letting a plate full of ketchup spill all over us is a much better option. The new attitude makes even fun times a little stressful.

Meanwhile, I'm still amazed by what a little kid you're becoming. I don't have to constantly hover over you any more. You're capable of playing by yourself without doing much bodily harm. Of course I'm still not a fan of flips off the couch.

Your imagination is emerging. You like to pretend to be Rapunzel in her tower when you play on your climber. You nearly gave me a heart attack when you told me there was a snake behind the door tonight. When I sent Dada to investigate, you added that it was a pink snake named Madeline.

You haven't been sleeping well lately either. You lie in bed playing, and whining, until way past 9 pm. There have been a few times where I've gone to sleep before you in the past month. I'm hoping this changes soon because I think the lack of sleep is adding to your crankiness.

Luckily, you seem to have gotten over your anti Dada phase. You even let him put you to bed on occasion. I'm glad because you two are great playmates. He'll sit on the floor playing Little People with you for much longer than Mumma has the patience for.

In spite of the challenges your impish ways throw at us, I feel very blessed to be your Mumma. It's miraculous watching you grow and change before our very eyes.

I will love you forever and always, little girl.

Love,
Mumma



Monday, May 13, 2013

Take Me Out to the Ball Game

Madeline has now been to two Red Sox games.


  Back in 2011, when she was little more than a loaf of bread, she sat on our laps, drank a bottle, and took a nap.

 This time she was able to clap and whoop along. She ate a hotdog and ice cream instead of a bottle, and she sat in her own seat for most of the game. And despite being up hours past her bedtime, she didn't sleep a wink.

Based on the pink hat and her slight, unexplainable Boston accent, I think it's safe to say that Maddie Bear's a real Sox fan.


Thanks for sharing the tickets, Mimi and Bob!






Thursday, May 9, 2013

Passing Doors

The classrooms in Madeline's daycare are laid out in a U with a large common area in the middle. As I made my way around the hallway this afternoon, I passed by the infant room, the toddler room, and the upper toddler room, glancing through the glass doors, as I rounded the corner to Madeline's new place of learning...the preschool.

She's been transitioning slowly to the preschool over the past month, but she started there permanently this week. Her name and picture are on a fresh, new cubby to make it official.

In the preschool, they talk about the weather and note today's date during circle time. They are currently studying space. They rotate through different play stations. Madeline enjoys "housekeeping." She also was sure to tell us that they no longer wear smocks during lunch. Apparently preschoolers don't dump spaghetti on themselves as often. Lots of big changes.

Meanwhile, the other children in her class seem so much older. They tower over Madeline, who just last week, was one of the tallest of her peers. They speak clearly and confidently. All traces of baby babble have vanished. A little boy said, "Hi there, buddy!" to Eric and giggled during our first visit.

This unfamiliar maturity is already starting to rub off on Madeline. She tries so hard to use her fork properly, she prefers cups without lids, and she has a renewed interest in using the "big potty."

We've watched Madeline progress from one end of the U all the way down to a new hallway. When I look into her old rooms, I can't help but notice how small the babies look, how simple the toys seem, how dependent they are on the teachers. It's like looking into the past, And she 's growing so much, so fast that it's nice to have a reminder of how far she's come.

Monday, May 6, 2013

32

Today's my sweet sixteen times two, which means I'd be at least twice as awkward in braces. I'm pretty sure my bras from 1997 still fit though, so there's that.

I had the idea to create a Super Super Sweet Sixteen video reminiscent of the old MTV show. (I realize that show is no longer culturally relevant, but being about seven years behind the times is part of being 32). Except in my version, I'd roll into my driveway in my 2009 Toyota Corolla, try on some sweet threads from Target, and top it all off with a killer VIP from my couch watching New Girl and guzzling box wine. Whatever, you're just jealous.

As it turns out, being 32 also means you're too tired to do a damn thing... So when my bestie pointed me toward the "32" parody of Taylor Swift's "22," I was thrilled that somebody had already done the work for me.

This video pretty much sums up my existence. Except in my world there'd be a toddler poking chop sticks up my nose and refusing to sleep.


Thursday, May 2, 2013

April, 2013

I totally forgot the world had moved on to May until trying to pay for my groceries the other afternoon. Credit card expired. Womp. Womp. Cue crazy lady dragging toddler by ankles in a mad dash to the ATM.

April was a strange month. It went by quickly, but vacation, which was just two weeks ago, feels much more distant. It was a month filled with fun personal moments, but also marred by multiple tragedies. Overall, everything feels a bit foggy.

I can't say I'm sorry to see you go, April. Hopefully May brings more brightness.



Wednesday, May 1, 2013

Why Eric Wins at Life

I've apparently gone on a cooking strike because my plans for dinner so far this week have amounted to, "Meh, how bout peanut butter and jelly??  Oh, we're out of bread?  Well, fend for yourself then."

Luckily, Eric, true provider that he is, has taken it upon himself to pick up the slack and make us some home-cooked meals.  Looks like Madeline won't have to eat Cheez-Its for dinner after all!  Hizzahh!  

Then, after dinner last night I decided to at least get some laundry done.  There was a clump of lint stuck in the dryer after I pulled out the lint trap, so I used a pencil to try and fish it out of the narrow crevice.  Two minutes later, I sheepishly approached Eric to tell him that I had lost a pencil in the dryer.

There was a very small sigh, but no real complaint as he got to work trying to remedy the situation.  He didn't even ask how I had managed such a thing.  I have a tendency to cause disaster wherever I lurk.  Soon enough, he managed to get the pencil out using a bent coat hanger and some scotch tape.  I think Eric may secretly be watching old MacGyver episodes when I fall asleep on the couch at night.

Finally, Eric capped off the evening by reading Madeline some stories in spite of the fact she's suddenly turned into a moody thirteen-year-old girl who yells at us for no apparent reason every few minutes.


Eric should teach a class on how to manage unruly redheads.  He's pretty good at it.